Hi love,  I trust you are now living committed to a GROWTH mindset and found my last blog helpful. In case you missed it, you can read it here. I want to share with you today what matters more than what you wear or what you say on a date or in relationship, and that is…

Hi love, I want you to know that I GET IT. I really do. It can be brutal out there. The ghosting, the sexual comments, the mindless small talk, and the lack of effort some men put toward you. I get it and here’s the thing: ALL OVER THE WORLD, every single day, people find…

Are you saying to yourself “I just want a boyfriend already!”? If you’re mad he’s not here yet, if you’re constantly wondering when he’s going to get here, I have something for you.  How does it usually go when we enter someone’s house and they say “Ugh thank God you’re here!” Usually it’s because you…

There are two types of women trying to find love and both types will not.  I’m going to tell you why AND how to become the kind of woman who DOES find love.  Woman #1: The woman who does it all.  She is making finding love her priority. She’s going on tons of dates, she’s…

This is the million dollar question, isn’t it?  I’ve been interviewed on so many podcasts and participated in so many summits where this is the question that’s asked – How does someone stop attracting emotionally unavailable people?  Women send me messages asking “How do I stop being attracted to emotionally unavailable people?”  The answer is…

There are 3 big lies you’ve been told about romantic love that are keeping you from having the Love you want and keeping you disempowered and stuck. Ready? 1. Love is enough (all you need is Love) This one is the most brutal. Inherent in this is that love is a feeling we must chase…

Over and over again this is what I hear from so many women who don’t quite know what to do when after a month or maybe a bit more, the intensity in which he was pursuing them just drops off.  “But he was so present and attentive in the beginning!!!” They say.  “I just want…

Dating multiple people is a surefire way to stay centered while dating and ensure that you make the best choice for you when it’s time to commit. I work with a lot of women who tend to become exclusive way too soon, sooner than they are truly able to see whether or not someone is…

Someone in my private group Sisters of the Heart recently posted something SO fascinating. She said she used to work for a psychic phone line and commented on how many people called in asking about love. She said, “They were desperate to know if someone who had broken up with them would come back,  or they wanted to…